by Angela Tian Zhu | Feb 10, 2018 | Yin Yang Wisdom
Physiologically, human beings eat and drink with their mouths. They use two directions: opening and closing, up and down. These two-way movements are the first step in obtaining nutrition. When you can control your mouth, it also leads to better health because you are aware of what you eat and what you say.
People express their feelings through their mouths: concerns, needs, evaluate things, criticism and praise, and often use language to vent their dissatisfaction and resentment, hurt others or gossip. The two-way movement of our lips can bring us blessings or disasters.
Talking to yourself is an important part of this two-way movement:
“What do I feel?”
“Why do I feel that way?”
“Why do I talk like that?”
“What is the purpose of my speech?”
“What result can I achieve?”
When we get the answer for ourselves, we understand ourselves and others better. Using malicious language towards others often shows our own vulnerability. Gratefulness and offering praise to others truthfully is being honest and humble. Gossiping causes harm and people who are tolerant and polite avoid talking about others. If you control the two-direction movement of your mouth, you can plant good seeds to grow in your inner garden which will improve your mental health and increase harmony around you.
When we are feeling down, anxious, depressed, scared, angry, don’t forget to ask ourselves:
“What am I angry, depressed, and scared or worried about?”
“How do I deal with it?”
“What do I want?”
When you answer yourself, it may help the clouds disappear and scatter the fog. Training yourself to talk to yourself, to write down your thoughts and feelings and be your own best friend, helps to reduce depression and anxiety. It will help us to become mentally and physically healthier and bring peace and harmony.
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by Angela Tian Zhu | Feb 5, 2018 | Yin Yang Wisdom
Physically:
Generally speaking, we physically use our ears to hear various sounds from the outside environment. We listen to the opinions, suggestions, and judgement from others. We ignore external sounds when we are sleep. If we listen twenty four hours a day we will damage the vital Qi (Energy).
Spiritually:
If we are just listening from the outside it makes us feel lost and negative, not knowing which way to go or distinguish right from wrong. It may make us feel depressed and sad. If we only listen to the negative things, we will get depressed, if we only listen to the positive things, we would lose touch from reality. So we need to use our sense of hearing in both directions, listening to our heart, feelings, intuition, needs and opinions. With the “two-directions” listening we can balance and judge what we hear from the outside, combined with what we hear from our heart. This allows us to achieve the wisdom of listening.
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by Angela Tian Zhu | Jan 31, 2018 | Yin Yang Wisdom
The two directions Wisdom (part 1) EYE
YIN-YANG Philosophy
Harvard University held a research project from 1938-2015. Over 76 years they followed 724 people to study ‘what kind of people are the happiest?’ The answer is that people who have a good social relationship are the happiest.
The research found that those people who have a close relationship with their family and enjoy socializing with friends and neighbors tend to be happier, healthier and live longer than those who don’t enjoy socializing and like to live alone.
How can we have a good social relationship?
Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) YIN-YANG philosophy delivers us infinite wisdom. One of the YIN-YANG viewpoints is: YIN is inside and YANG is outside. YIN is entering and YANG is exiting. YIN is closed and YANG is open. The most important theory is that YIN-YANG needs to be balanced. Trouble comes if imbalance occurs and things can go wrong with health and life.
Human beings have nine holes on their body – these are the eyes, ears, nostrils, mouth, anus and urethra. Our bodies are designed to open and close. These holes are there to achieve harmony.
To have good mental health and prevent anxiety and depression, we need to use our senses to apply the ‘Two-Directions’ YIN-YANG philosophy to keep our inner environment balanced and maintain harmony around us.
1. Wisely use eyes in the two-directions. Everyone use their eyes to observe the outside world, appreciate the nature, read and look at the world around them. When we have trouble with any relationships, we often look at other people’s faults or their unreasonableness. Gradually this builds resentment. Eventually it will affect our mental health. We can use the wisdom eyes to look inside ourselves, ‘visualizing the inside’ to see ‘what mistake have I made?’ and ‘what should I change next time?’ ‘How to communicate’
Then we can appreciate and praise other people’s good sides, and bravely admit the wrong side of ourselves, and have the courage to apologize. This will help us to have a better relationship in our families and between friends and workmates.
© copyright Angela Tian Zhu 2018.
